Ramble On...

If it was ever the right time to ramble, it's now...I am SO in the mood to relax and just put all of my thoughts in one place. Hence I have a BLOG! haha Here's what's been on my mind lately... ------- Planning a wedding = stress, right? I expected that. What I didn't expect? Major (like, SUPER major) heartburn. I have been so uncomfortable lately, all because of the stress. I am trying not to let it have a negative effect on me. Hoping it goes away the closer we get to the wedding! *Fingers Crossed*
I haven't been able to find the PERFECT wedding shoes in person...so Ryan talked me into ordering a few of my favorite pairs online. Which I never EVER do. I hate ordering shoes online. The good news is I LOVE both pairs :) Now, to just make up my mind.
Speaking of shoes...since having ankle surgery last November, I haven't really been able to wear heels or high (3+ inch) wedges. I've been working my way up to my regular shoes (I even had to buy kitten wedges haha) and I'm finally back into my regular wedges!! I still take flats to work with me just in case my ankle starts to hurt, but I'm so excited to be back in my regular shoes. This means my ankle will definitely feel up to the task of walking in pretty and high shoes for the wedding!
I feel terrible about finding someone to do my wedding hair. That sh*t is expensive, and I just don't think it's worth it to pay someone $100 to do what I can do. I just want someone to do my hair while I sit an relax the morning of my wedding, but paying that much isn't relaxing to me. Anyone know of a good wedding hair person in Nashville that doesn't cost a small fortune? I'm looking for myself and at least one other bridesmaid. (And yes, this makes me seem cheap. Guess what? I am cheap! It doesn't hurt me when I try to save money.) 
I've been trying to determine what makeup I'll need for the wedding (to have a good photo-ready look), but since I don't wear much to begin with, I've had a hard time figuring out where to start. I only wear eye makeup, blush, and maybe some concealer and/or primer when I need it. I've only figured a little bit out so far...I'm definitely going to wear a good primer (photo finish Smashbox), and a good concealer for under my eyes (leaning towards Erase Paste). I've still got a long way to go it seems :) Any suggestions or wedding day makeup pointers are welcome!
I finally get to cash in on one of my favorite Christmas presents next Monday---laser hair removal for my legs! I can't wait to not have to shave my legs, especially with the honeymoon coming up. 
I know everyone else is loving Jennifer Lawrence as much as I am, but I've had a major crush on her for a long time. I am so excited to see her finally hit the mainstream and to be getting so much love!
I've had a terrible case of the Mondays this week, especially today. It seems like every thing I try to do turns out wrong or backwards, etc. I just can't get ahead and I don't enjoy that feeling. Since it's been such a long week, I was ridiculously happy to hear that Ryan wanted to grill out for dinner tonight and that our friends were getting together for trivia. The day really started looking up after work. Except after dinner I put my comfy clothes on and got sleepy. and here I am on the couch, folding laundry, catching up on PLL and blogging. I can't complain because I'm finally feeling relaxed. Thank the heavens!
Remember this post? It's probably the best pep talk advice I've ever given myself and I'm glad I blogged about it. It's a really nice post to go back a revisit. Those words helped me get past something that I am SO GLAD to be past. I'm so much happier now because I decided to let myself change what wasn't making me happy. Thank goodness for having the freedom to make my own choices (and the guts to change)!

Talk about making good choices...I've tried so hard lately to NOT each junk food. I've made some changes and I've cut down on my bad-food intake, but I just can't seem to kick it all together. What's wrong with me?!!? haha I just love a good snack, I guess... :(
We kinda-sorta inherited Ryan's grandmother's china cabinet/hutch and I can't wait to re-do it with Ryan! I think we are going to do an all white makeover, similar to this, this, and this. Thoughts? Have you ever redone a hutch?
------- Alright, alright. That's it for today! If you made it this far, I hope you have a great day! :)

{Wedding Wednesday} Shoes!

Happy Wednesday ladies! Did y'all stay up late to watch election results? It's been a whirlwind the last few days with all of the election coverage!

  Don't worry, I'm not here to write about politics today--I'm sharing another Wedding Wednesday post with you! This week it's all about shoes {specifically for the bride--me}! 

Because of the length of my dress, the material of my dress, and the color of my dress it's been somewhat challenging to find the perfect pair of shoes. Not to mention that it's an outdoor wedding, so no high heels for this girl! I am one of those girls who loves when a photographer captures a great photo with the bride and her shoes (whether it be by herself, with her bridesmaids, or with the groom), so the shoes are important to me!   Check out these sweet shots...

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 See what I mean?  Not only are the shoes important in the photos, they also add to the overall feel for the bride! I feel like a princess in my wedding dress, and I expect to feel the same way about my shoes.   I think I've narrowed my ideas down to these four options: Sparkly sandals with little or no heel. Flats with good detail (nothing too plain). A not-too-tall wedge in a navy or a grey with a little detail. Cowboy boots (I already own).   Here are a few examples of what I've had my eye on:

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I LOVE the detail on this shoe--I'm trying to find a similar style in a wedge.
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Aren't these gorgeous? I would like them better in silver or a cream, instead of gold.
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I absolutely LOVE these, but I think the height is too much.
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Relaxed Steve Madden sandals...
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My FAVORITE pair...aren't they gorgeous!? Kate Spade, of course!
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------- Thoughts? I know it's tough picking a pair without knowing what the dress looks like, but I think any of the above would well. Wish me luck with finding the perfect pair!
P.s. I'm hosting a link up today with Mary at {A Happy Wife in New Orleans} for Wedding Wednesday posts! Swing by and check out all the wedding posts and make a few new friends!

Need a Lift? [Thrifty Tuesday]

Happy Tuesday friends! It's another beautiful day here in Nashville! I hope you're having a great day as well! As the weather gets nicer, I grow more anxious to revamp my spring and summer wardrobe. On my to-buy list? Wedges! I have been hunting for the perfect brown, leather, strappy ones for close to 2 years. I am a little picky when it comes to this...

I don't want them to be too high. They have to be the right shade of brown. They have to be the right material. The list goes on! After such a long search, I've decided that it's finally here....I'm buying a pair this year! So, this week's Thrifty Tuesday is all about wedges!

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Do you have a favorite pair of wedges? Why do you love them? Where are they from? Spill the beans!

P.s. All of these wedges are under $50!

Friday's Fancies

Usually, around this time of year you take a lot of time to think about the year ahead and how you want to put your best foot forward. Well, for me, it's nice to take a little break from that to participate in this week's Friday's Fancies! I want to take a step back and think about a different foot. Well, actually, I want to think about two feet--the ones I put shoes on! This week's Friday's Fancies is about putting your best foot forward. If you know me at all, you know that I'm not one to pass up an opportunity to drool over shop for new shoes. After all of the sassy shoes that I posted with recent FF outfits and all of the boots I posted during the fall, I decided that it was time to focus on a type of shoe that I would actually go shopping for right now. And while I won't be buying these exact pairs, I can dream!

1.Fendi Mademoiselle Black Jaguar Ballerinas 2.Marionette Bow Flats 3.Treck Calf Ballerinas
4.Miss Kg Lulu Bow Front Ballet Flat 5.Steve Madden Karisma Ballet Flat
6.Pour La Victoire Erna Bronze Mauve Glitter 7.Fossil Maddox Novelty Flat
8.Tory Burch Aaden Ballet 9.Christian Louboutin Balindono Flats
10.Jimmy Choo Whirl Glitter Cap-Toe Ballerina Flat 11.Fossil Maggy Flat
12.Tory Burch Reva Ballet 13.Palazzo Bruciato Dark Gray Suede Ballerina Flats
14. J.Crew Glitterati Ballet Flats

Be sure to check out the rest of the Friday's Fancies....and join in if you're feeling fancy!

Style Sunday

After spending some time at the pool today, I decided that I am absolutely over the heat and more than ready for some chilly fall weather. Of course the only reason that I want chilly weather is so that I have an excuse for warm sweaters, warm beverages, and warm cuddles!
Oh yeah, you can't forget the sexy boots ;)

I can't wait to update my closet (just a little) this fall. Here are the styles I am drooling over. Hopefully I'll get to pick up a few things that are similar...

All photos via Pinterest

Don't these outfits just make you want to layer up and plan something outside? I can't wait to be able to dress the way I want and not have to worry about the temperatures!

P.s. Find me on Pinterest (@ashmpars) to see all of these outfits and more (as well as the links to all pieces)!